Pilgrim or shopper?

In a conversation about travel this morning, someone commented that she’d heard it said that travelers are either “pilgrims” or “shoppers”. I thought about how that might apply to dating. Are you a pilgrim? Are you a seeker? Are you willing to put your ego aside and be open to new experiences? Or are you a shopper? Do you go through online dating sites seeing men as if they were items in a catalogue?

How could you shift your mindset so you saw looking for love as a pilgrimage rather than as a shopping expedition? How would that make a difference in your life? I’d love to hear your comments!

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